Sunday May 18, 2008  Fr. Bill Bueche

 

Trinity Sunday

 

So today, well during this month of May actually, but today in this church we celebrate graduations. Graduations are one of the things that happen primarily in the springtime so we invite our graduates, those who are graduating with various degrees in the schools to come today to celebrate with them and to bless them in a special way. So, would the graduates please stand up a minute?  How many of you are graduating today, or not today but how many of you are graduating, or have graduated during this past year?  Okay, we have a nice group. Thank you. Please be seated. (Applause)  We’ll invite you up after Communion for a blessing. And yes, the applause is appropriate because we applaud your success. We applaud; we’re happy and proud of you making the grade, so to speak. Graduation—it’s the same word. Graduation—you made the grade and you graduate to the next step, to the next level.

And then you begin again, all over again more or less. After you graduate it’s not like you’re finished, it’s like that’s it for this part but you start and you start again almost at the bottom and then move ahead once again. When we think of graduation or graduating or the grades we think of grades or levels. So we think of it often in terms of lower and higher, climbing, that we are climbing during this time as we move toward graduation. When we graduate we have reached a certain level.

 

I personally prefer to think of more as a journey. Not so much the climbing but as moving along, moving ahead. Perhaps more as a milestone. You reach a certain point, a certain goal, a certain place that you wanted to come to, that you needed to come to and then you move on.

 

And so you know it begins with kindergarten into first grade, and eight grade into high school, then high school into university or into the work force and then even in university in college perhaps graduate degrees going further in those studies.

 

But it’s not only about school. Certainly we think of education in terms of school but only a part of our education comes through school.

 

And actually as we move through life, as we journey along in life we continue to graduate into new places. Into new levels if you will.

 

After school is finished, when you move into the work force very often or sometimes before school is finished people move from being for instance individuals, bachelors or individuals into being married people. That’s a whole new step. That’s a whole new level and that’s a whole new responsibility.

 

And then with children comes another whole new step and another whole new responsibility.

 

And then as you go on you move into that other step which some people call the ‘empty nest’ when you have to let go of those children and you let go of those responsibilities.

 

Then finally as we move into old age we really let go of all responsibilities and put them in others’ hands once again.

 

One thing I want to say is that as we move forward like that whatever was here you leave behind. That’s kind of the hard part. Sometimes you leave friends and acquaintances behind. Places that you’ve been and things that you’ve experienced you leave behind as you move ahead. In a sense you have to let go. That whole process is a continual letting go of what was so that you can move forward to accept whatever is coming, whatever awaits.

 

That is the whole process. That is what we celebrate in graduation today, not only for our graduates who receive their degrees in our schools, but for all of us as we move forward, move ahead in life.

 

Now here’s the big question though—where are we going on this journey?  Where are you going on this journey?  See usually we have a destination in mind. You know usually if we are moving somewhere or journeying we have a goal, we have a destination. Where are you going?  Where are we all going?  And that is the important point today. And that’s the point I can speak on in relationship to what we celebrate today which is the Holy Trinity. God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

 

Yet in a sense some people would answer that very simply, where are we moving toward?  Toward death and toward a new life, toward heaven. Yes. That’s it in a nutshell. But that’s too simplistic. Actually what we are moving toward is a deeper relationship at all times with God and with one another.

 

You see when we celebrate this feast of The Trinity, God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, what we celebrate it that God was not satisfied to be alone. God is three persons in one. Why?  So that there could be relationships. And why relationships?  So that there could be love. That’s really what God is all about. And that’s really what we are moving toward at all times.

 

So graduates, as you graduate from, the graduates today I’m talking about, as you graduate let’s say from high school or college. What is your goal?  Is you goal to make a million dollars a year?  Is that success?  To have the kind of job that everybody is going to look up to you and very important or with prestige, is that success?  I would say it’s not wrong to have certain goals in regard to careers and regards to making money, etc. But is that really what’s central or most important?  I would say no. I would say what’s most important, and the most important goal is relationships. That as you move ahead, that as we all move ahead in this life, that we learn to form good relationships. Loving relationships. That relationship is what it is all about. And after this world, after this earth, when we go to heaven I’m sure that relationship is what it is all about.

 

Why would Jesus tell us to love our enemies?  Why would Jesus tell us to love everyone?  That was Jesus’ whole purpose in coming to this earth, to show us what life is all about. And in God it is all about relationships and love.

 

To today as we think about journeying in life let’s think about our relationships, the ones we’ve had, the ones we have, the ones we don’t have yet but we’ll make. And then to realize that we are really in relationship with everyone and everything even though we don’t recognize it and are not conscious of it. But let us try to be more conscious of building good, healthy, relationships. To really work at that. That’s really what God wants for all of us and that’s really what brings happiness, and that really will be our ultimate graduation. Graduate into full relationship with God and everyone.