Sunday October 4, 2009  Fr. Pat Grile

 

Twenty-seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

 

Something very, very powerful in all of our readings today.  Some people think I’m going to talk about divorce and remarriage.  No.  I want to go much deeper than that because the reality as you go back even to the first reading from Genesis.  And it talks about God creating human kind, mankind.  And God said right from the beginning, “It’s not good for the man to be alone.  I will make a suitable partner for him.”  So then God tried all these animals and everything else He put into creation.  And they were not the suitable partners for the man.  And then God said, “I gotta get this right cause I’m only going to do it once.”  So God then cast a sleep on the man and while he was asleep He took one of his ribs, closed up its place with flesh, built up into a woman the rib He had taken from the man. 

 

Now some people like to say that means man came first therefore women are secondary and women are put here to please their man.  That is not what the text supports.  What it is trying to say is that women and men were made for each other.  This one is “bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh.”  Men and women are made to compliment one another.  To build on the strengths and the weakness of each other.  In other words you would say too, that we as human beings are social people.  We are made for each other. 

 

This goes right back to the beginning of creation where God said, “I have created you, put you into this world that I have created so that you people, men and women and everybody else down through time and history can reflect really My image.”  We are made in the image and likeness of God and that’s why Jesus quotes again in the scripture, “What God has joined together no human being must separate.” 

 

So the sign of unity, the sign of God’s presence in this world is the beautiful sacrament of marriage.  It is the beautiful gift of the Eucharist that you and I have again this morning.  Jesus told us unless we eat His flesh and drink His blood we will not have life within us.  So our very presence here this morning, whether you are married or not, whether you are married and divorced and remarried, whether you are single, widowed or widower, whether you are too young to get married, or if you’re like me who vowed my life as a celibate that I do not marry in this life, you the parish of St. Alphonsus are my spouse.  You are the people at this moment in time that I commit my life to give to you what I can give and I in turn receive from you.  All of us together are this Body of Christ, the Church. 

 

So this is what we are celebrating today in a powerful, beautiful way who you and I are as the image of God.  That is the core of our scripture readings today. 

 

Now you and I know very well that in our world today we do many things that really separate or break this intimacy between ourselves and one another.  Think of it this way:  That in our world today, and I tried to list some of them this way, the things that break the unity, the things that break this symbol of our intimacy are being bound together.  War—why is it that from the beginning it seems like mankind has waged war.  You know shortly after this particular passage in Genesis Cain and Abel had their outing and their differences.  And Cain asked that question, “Am I my brother’s keeper?”  Yes, you and I are the keepers of one another.  We are bound to one another.  We are responsible for and to one another.  Look what we do so many times and we try to tear that apart.  So war, homelessness, poverty, racism, sexism, all the different ways that we have divided ourselves and separated ourselves from one another and said we are not responsible for one another.  It’s just me, myself and I.  How selfish, how terrible.  We are responsible for one another.  This is the Church, you and I, the people of God. 

 

You know Hebrews, the second reading said that Jesus having come from God, coming into our world, taking our humanity and joining it with His divinity and then said, “He was not ashamed to call us brothers and sisters because we all have one origin, God.”  That’s where we came from, that’s where we are going back.  To the image of God, to that wonderful embrace of heaven. 

 

So there’s the circle.  It completes itself. 

 

Think of it again this way.  You and I here this morning, we the people of St. Alphonsus Parish, last night we had a fantastic celebration for our parish school.  It was the beginning of our alumni gathering.  Over 200 people, graduates from St. Alphonsus School over the last 50 years gathered here last night in the school and in the gym to celebrate what had been given to them by their presence here at St. Alphonsus School.  It was fantastic.  I met one young man who came from St. Cloud.  Somebody else drove up from Chicago.  Others came from around the Twin Cities.  But we got it started, the alumni group from St. Alphonsus School. 

 

We’ve been celebrating our 50th anniversary as a parish.  A week ago Saturday night we had a gathering for all the charter members of St. Alphonsus Parish.  You and I have a great legacy, a heritage, a tradition that for 50 years we have been coming around this table of the Lord in celebrating who we are—brothers and sisters in the Lord.  Responsible for and to one another.

 

Think of the many different ways that this parish community over 50 years has reached out to help one another.  Look at all the food that you brought this morning.  This food is going to go to CEAP and to Sharing and Caring Hands to feed the hungry.  Many of you use the CEAP envelop.  Many people volunteer to cook food for Sharing and Caring Hands and for the Branch.  We have our parish Sharing Fund.  You’ve heard me talk about it before, and even more so than ever right now with the economic hardships I am called upon every week.  More people than I can assist, to try to help people stay in their homes, get food, shelter, the basic necessities of life.  That’s why it’s called the Sharing Fund.  That Sharing Fund we take 4-5% of our Sunday collection goes into a special fund that I administer to help the needs of the less fortunate of our parishioners, brothers and sisters.  That is coming from you by the envelop, by the contributions that you make. 

 

You may not know all the names of the people that you assist and help.  I do.  For the last 10 years I have kept all these names, all the people that we’ve helped, in a special file in my office.  It’s amazing what your charity and sharing have helped for other people.  You’re doing it, unbeknownst to yourself perhaps, because of what Jesus has told us this morning.  “What God has joined together let no one tear apart.”

 

You and I are binding each other.  We are building with each other.  We are growing with each other.  We are sharing with each other.  We are giving life to each other. 

 

Think of it again another way like this:  It isn’t just a husband and wife who become one.  Think of the people in your life, as I started out the Mass earlier.  Who are the people that God has put into your journey of life?  Who are the ones who are closest to you?  It might be your spouse.  Maybe it’s one of your siblings.  Maybe it’s one of your children.  Maybe for some of you it is one of your parents.  Maybe it’s a total stranger, someone who walked in and out of your life and you said, “Wow!  That person reminds me and has called me to be who I am, who I want to be.”  Maybe it’s a friend.  You know we get to chose our friends don’t?  We don’t get to chose our families, they’re given to us.  And isn’t it great and wonderful, especially of you in the sacrament of marriage if your spouse is your friend?  How wonderful, how beautiful. 

 

So we are here this morning as the body and blood of Jesus, as the Church.  The image of God in the Parish of St. Alphonsus.  Wherever you and I go this day we will image God’s faithfulness, love, compassion, joy and mercy.  That’s who you and I are.  Are we each other’s keepers?  Yes.  We hold each other up, we cry with each other, we laugh with each other, we party with each other, we bury each other, we baptize, we marry, we forgive, we love.  We do all that because that’s what God put us on this earth to be. 

 

So as you go about your lives today—I’m trying to figure out how to end this—maybe just take a little quiet time.  Just sit, in privacy if you’re home perhaps.  If you can’t find some quiet time at home go out and sit in the car, or stay here in church a little bit, or go find a little quiet place, and just in your mind and your heart line up for yourself all the people that have journeyed with you in your life to this point in time and history.  Image who they are.  Put their names and their faces together. 

 

Now this might take you 10 minutes, half an hour, an hour, I don’t know.  Take as much time as you need with it because those are the people that God put into your life.  Whether they are living or deceased.  Think of both of them and just as you image them just say, “Thank you God for that person in my life.”  Because then you will realize how blessed you are, how fortunate you and I are, and then go the next little step and say a simple little prayer for all your brothers and sisters in St. Alphonsus Parish.