Sunday November 8, 2009

 

Thirty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time

 

You go back into that first reading from the First Book of Kings.  Here’s Elijah the prophet.  He’s been sent by God to this little town near Zarephath.  And he’s very hungry.  And as the reading points out he comes across this widow who is at the last moment of her existence probably.  As she says “I’ve been going out.  All I have is just a little flour and a little oil in my jar.  I’m going to prepare the last meal for me and my son and then when we finish that last meal, that’s it, we’ll probably die.” 

 

Now you would think the prophet would say, “Well golly, I’ll work a miracle and we’ll get you some more food.”  What does he say?  He says, “Give it to me.”  Taking the last meal that this widow and her son was going to have and he says, “I want it all, you just give it to me.  And trust that somehow you’ll come out okay.” 

 

So she has to have somehow a faith or a trust that God will get it to her.   Get something back to her.  And of course she does that.  She fixes the food for the prophet Elijah.  And what happens then?  She and her son were able to eat for a whole year.  The jar of flour did not go empty, nor the jug of oil run dry. 


The next part in that particular reading from the Book of Kings is not here but her son gets sick and she feels that this must have been a punishment.  Maybe she didn’t trust enough.  But Elijah the prophet does heal her son in the name of God. 

 

So what’s the bottom line?  I think it’s trying to say that we can never outdo God in generosity.  And really the foundation for any generosity or giving is gratitude for the many gifts that you and I have.  So the foundation for generosity is a prior gratitude for the gifts given.  And I’m sure that each and everyone of us here tonight, if we really sat down and were honest with ourselves, we would find that there are many things in our lives that we need to be grateful for.   Clothes, food, shelter, the people around us, our families, our education, living in such a beautiful country at this as well, the beautiful weather today.  When we become grateful then we realize that as we have been given we in turn will want to be generous with our own times, talents and energies for other people. 

 

That flows through the beautiful imagery of this poor woman who just puts in perhaps the last few pennies that she had.  And again probably she must have had a deep faith that somehow God would make it up for her.  It doesn’t say that but how could she put just what was her emptiness and then walk away, and yet she seems to have done that. 

 

And Jesus says, “Look at her!”  What an example.  What a way to live.  That even when you’re down and out and you have nothing left you’re still willing to give something of what you do have. 

 

I guess I think of it this way, think of the people, perhaps you and I, who perhaps are down and out. We think we have nothing left to give.  Little remains perhaps inside of ourselves physically, emotionally.  Perhaps even spiritually we’re drained, we’re running on empty.  And then somehow somebody else comes to us and says, “I need a little of your time.  I need you to listen to me.  Could you help me?  Would you be there for me?  Could you give me a ride?  Could you stay one little more moment to be with my children while I do this?”  Whatever it might be.  When we are perhaps at our emptiest moment someone calls on us and says, “Could you give a little more?”  What happens, we do dig down a little bit deeper and we pull up something else.  And what happens?  Grace is reborn. 

 

God’s magnitude, God’s love somehow gets back to us in ways untold.  Because then when you’re in that situation, you need help.  Who do you usually go to?  You go who somebody else who knows, who’s been there just as you and they help you.  It always comes back around

 

I keep thinking about this woman in the gospel, the widow in the first reading.  And I had a wonderful woman in my life, my mom’s older sister.  We called her Aunt Frankie.  Frances was her name but we never called her Frances.  It was always Aunt Frankie.  Aunt Frankie never married.  She lived for a while, as a lot of the Irish did in those days with her other siblings.  Three or four of them lived together who had never married and they took care of their mother, my grandmother.  What I found out after a lot of years later, that it was my Aunt Frankie who paid my tuition all the way through grade school, high school and college because for my mom and dad, there’s no way they could have afforded it.  Especially when I went into the seminary and my brother Harry was ahead of me and now they had two tuitions to pay.  It was my Aunt Frankie, very quietly, without any fanfare, never asked anything for it, but she did it.  She’s an example to me really when I think of this idea of generosity is all about.  Somehow in her own life she realized that she had been blessed.  Whatever God had given to her she in turn wanted to pass on, to give to other people.

 

I hope you have somebody like that who has crossed your path already.  Maybe it was an uncle or an aunt, maybe a grandparent, maybe somebody else who is a stranger.  But I can tell you I’ve been reading a lot of letters from people with our stewardship appeal and many of these people are writing back saying, “I can’t give any more.  I’m living on my pension or my Social Security.  These are the only things that I have left but I will do what I can.”  One person enclosed a check and said, “Here’s what I have been able to save but I want the church to have it.”  I read some of these letters and I sit there so humbled by the generosity and sacrifices that your fellow parishioners are making because they really are giving of their whole life. 

 

That’s what the gospel message is about.  Think about it this way too.  You know God gave all He had.  He gave His won son Jesus.  And Jesus gave all He had, His very life that you and I could have the gift of eternal life.

 

So as you and I have been given let us be grateful and let us in turn then see how generous we can be with our time, our talents, energy, perhaps too with our own financial resources if that’s in the picture as well.  But the important thing, we give from our hearts.  We give because we know that God will get it back to us a thousand fold.  We’ll never outdo God in generosity.  That’s been proven time and time again.  And I know that in my  life so many times that I think, “Oh gee Pat, you’ve done so much, you give so much.”  And then I look at what somebody else is doing and I say, “Oh whoa, I’ve got a long ways to go.  I can’t even hold a candle to what some other people do and give.”

 

So let’s not feel sorry for ourselves and let us be grateful.  Let us in turn then be grateful for all the many good people that God has given to you and to me.  Maybe go back home tonight, take out a little time and just think of all the people that have walked into your life, how they blessed you, encouraged you, gave you hope and comfort and consolation, gentleness.  Maybe they didn’t have any money but they gave you their time, they gave you their heart.  What is the bottom line?  They gave you God’s life so be grateful.  Then somehow in the course of this week I’m sure that each of will be called upon in some way to do the same or to be the same for somebody else.  All you need sometimes is just to listen or hold out a hand or to say a prayer.  But boy God will make good use of it and God will get it back to you and me.