January 1, 2010  Fr. Pat Grile

 

New Years Day, Feast of Mary the Mother of God

 

Seems like we begin a new year people like to make New Year’s resolutions.  And I thought of one early this morning and it would go something like this; that I promise not to preach any homilies that last longer than 15 minutes.  Huh?  That was a backhanded one wasn’t it?  It gives me a lot of room.  But you know, don’t make resolutions that you’re not going to keep.  So maybe we need to keep them very simple. 

 

And I think that’s why when we begin a new year the church makes this feast day Mary the Mother of God.  In a very simple line from the gospel, “Mary kept all these things reflecting on them in her heart.”  And to me that would be something that I have decided to do in this year, 2010 is to have that sense of reflection, that sense of prayer within.  We have so much noise around us, so many distractions.  And perhaps the best thing that you and I would want to give to ourselves as we begin a new year would be some quiet and some stillness, and to follow Mary in reflecting.

 

Another way to ask that is what are you and I doing with the life God gave us?  And that can be a pretty deep question.  So think of it this way.  One person told me that in her prayer she heard God saying this, “Give me half your heart and I’ll show you half My power.  Give me all your heart and I’ll change your life.” 

 

Do we want to give God only half our heart and be content with that?  Or are we willing in a new year to let go of the past whatever happened in 2009, begin again and say, “This is the year Lord that I will give You my whole heart.”  We can only do that if, like Mary, we go deep within.  If we just stay on the surface then not a whole lot is going to change. 

 

 

Certainly Mary, reflect on her life.  Here she was before she gave birth to Jesus.  A young woman, probably maybe only 14-years-old, pregnant, espoused.  Everything in that society and culture said she should have been put away, should have been stoned, put to death even.  The scriptures tell us Joseph, being an upright man said, “No.  I’ll do this very quietly.  I’ll take her as my wife and we’ll move forward.” 

 

Think of Mary.  If one of your daughters had come up to you at that point in her life and said, “Guess what mom and dad?”  You would have been embarrassed, you would have been fearful not knowing quite what to do.  Mary said, “Yes, I’ll give You God my whole heart.”  And history has changed.

 

So as we begin a new year, choose.  Will this be a year of daring, a year of healing, a year of love, or a year of consent like Mary saying, “Yes.

 

I started out my Mass by saying you can live in fear or we can enjoy the adventure.  I choose to enjoy the adventure.  I will choose to be like Mary and to reflect on everything that God gives to me every day.  Say, “Yes” and let this be a great year for you and for me.